Modified 11 months ago,
Ladies has anyone ever felt like they have been a little bullied on here or that someone just won’t take no for an answer?
MiSsAsH<3 said:
I understand trying to negotiate and put things up someone likes but I’m talking they know you are trading it and won’t leave you alone???!!!
11 months ago,beka said:
not really, thank goodness. i have had other incidents of extreme rudeness though.! but, i am usually retaliatory when it comes to taking bs from someone.
Kristin said:
If you feel like you’re being bullied, let myself or one of the other admins know. We don’t tolerate harassment. Plus, swapping is suppose to be fun.
Isabella said:
I just had someone send trade offers and e-mails probably twenty plus times for an item that I’m trading and I didn’t harassed. I just figured they were expressing a really big interest. No problem for me.
MiSsAsH<3 said:
Me and another fellow rehashed are working out a large trade so she is holding a lot of her items for me, and some other rehashes keeps bugging her for them after she has Sid she won’t trade them, and they said if its not in a trade by the time this person gets home they are sending a trade offer. That’s a little too aggressive.
DiggaD said:
Maybe aggressive, but I wouldn’t call that bullying. Is she in any way seeming mean spirited, derogatory, or anything like that? Or just a little overenthusiastic?





MiSsAsH<3 has a total of 21 comments
Danielle said:
how do you leave negative for her… I never received my end of swap.. I was almost $70 of vs items… We had swapped 3 times and things were good so I stupidly sent her my stuff first on this last trade… I am so angry
Aurorealis said:
If anyone does contact her or makes any headway with filing fraud let us know on her page. I sent her several messages and I also tried mailing her (sent her $20 hoping it would help to ship not only for me but for all of us) and told her of the few things she owed me all I really wanted was one item and I’d call it even. No response, and up until that point we’d done well in our trades, which is the worst part – it’s so disappointing! I know she had a lot on her plate, but it’s about being fair. Ashley, we were good to you, so be fair to us. I know this falls on deaf ears but I had to just get it out.
Lira said:
God- I am so angry—but I don’t want to file fraud against her or anything. I know people who have been swaplifted and when they filed nothing happened— there isn’t much that can be done. Plus, I feel stupid saying “I sent items to a complete stranger I met online and she didn’t send me her end. I have no idea who she is or where she is.”
Ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kris said:
Wow. I seriously sent her over a $100 in items. I’m sorry but what a dirty bitch. I shouldn’t have traded with her at all, she was just gonna send me some cheap shit. She was such a nag and ass kisser so I finally figured screw it. Seriously you are not worth my time. It’s been a months. Dirty scammer. Hope you feel like shit after screwing over all these girls and I hope they all call the cops on you. You deserve it. I hate thieves. Sorry about the anger ladies but after reading all the comments I can’t believe this girl.
Lira said:
OH MY GOD! Am I one of those who has been swaplifted? Ashley was suppose to send me a Sweater
—months ago— I have been understanding and I usually don’t mind long shipping times as long as I get my end because I know we all have busy lives/shipping is expensive etc. Whatever.. But to not even answer? I sent her a brand new pair of heels, a wallet, and a scarf… I was generous which I now know was a mistake— makes me think twice about swapping on here or anywhere. I didn’t even feel like swapping because I wasn’t all that interested in her items BUT she kept asking and asking and asking and asking so I swapped for something I thought I could make use out of. I guess that’s a signRelentlessnessFirst time I have been swaplifted-I don’t know what to do except to tell you all not to waste your time-she’s not coming back on here and not going to respond to messages —she’s hiding because she knows she is wrong.Gina L said:
Ash, I don’t want to sound like the rest of the girls here, but I have to say this sucks. We had several long text conversations while you were going through your issues and I have been very understanding I think. Hell, at one point I was actually out shopping for your heels. I’d like to believe you have not swaplifted from me, but here we are, over 2 months later and nothing. I’m not sure what to say other than either send your end or send back my items please. I thought we were actually friends and think this sucks, not to mention that Jenn is one of my close friends and it actually pisses me off that you did this to her more than that you did it to me. Just make it right please.
Hey Roxy said:
I am also going to be contacting your local police & claiming mail fraud against you. I’m sure they will love hearing from the 3+ girls that you have screwed over. You were so wrong for stealing everyone’s stuff & I’m doing something about it. The worst thing is that you pretended to be everyone’s friend. That’s messed up, Ash.
Eliza said:
I have never been swaplifted before. You seem so nice during our conversations, but it was to cover up your deceiving plans to swaplift! I was very patient with you. I had no hesitation sending you my Juicy purse and 2 tops. Because of this, I have to worry about other swappers with high feedback because they might be just like you. I recently saw the group you made “I LOVE when you RESPOND !!” WHAT A JOKE! I hope your happy with what you’re doing. I will be contacting admins and mail fraud for your crime.
Jenn said:
After all the conversations we had about swaplifters ?? Seriously?? I cannot believe you
couldnt even text me! SO not right what you have done to me and others on here!!! Especially me! I sent you FREE stuff when you wanted something you had nothing to trade for! Unreal, im considering my self swaplifted by someone who pretended to be a friend…. What a shame you could do that to people!
Its stealing and you hated swap lifters!!! Now you are one! Dont contact me anymore! And im glad that i didnt loan you $100 after promising to send my stuff and never did Thats alot of nerve! IM seriously P Oed
at you and im sure evryone else is too! How much stuff did you make out with Ash? Seems to be alot of people waiting on their end so must have made out pretty well! Enjoy your stolen clothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When you wear it, dont forget what you did to people to get it!
Hey Roxy said:
Ashley, I asked you already when you are going to ship to me. My name isn’t on either list on your profile. If you aren’t going to ship me what you traded me would you please at least send me my stuff back? I feel really cheated. I am sorry that you are going through a lot, but I still feel like you could at least respond….
petra92485 said:
I had to leave negative feedback for the first time. I know you are going through a lot, but honestly aren’t we all? Don’t join a site that you cannot commit too. I am on here to trade and honestly if I can’t afford it or I can’t find time I would still manage to finish what I started and then leave the site.its only respectful. I am not a mean person when it comes to this site. I am pretty easy going and make very generous trades here and there and I feel like I have been taken advantage of. What you are doing is just so disrespectful and I feel sorry for everyone else you are doing this too.
Marie said:
Hey Ash,
Unfortunately hearing from everyone else in the same position, I’ve decided to go ahead and claim mail fraud and contact your local police. We’ve talked way too many times about this, and you promised my package several weeks ago. When I opened it, there was less than half of what you owed me, and you know you did me wrong. So I’ve talked to the admins, and this is my next step.
ziola28 said:
Same here! I think I have been more than patient, It’s been months and I shipped your items right away even though you were new and I had tons more karma then you because I trusted you! could you please let me know when you plan on shipping? I was just as excited to receive the boots as you were for you were to receive the items I sent months ago!
Jenn said:
Hey ash, I dont know whats going on, i havent heard from you the ship date you posted for my package has not been recieved. I’ve been pretty good to you, could you pleaseeee ship my 4 items you owe me right away.
You ve given me 3 different ship dates, non of which ever happened. Im hoping i havent been lifted by you of all people, its hard not to think so when its coming up on 3 months, you keep saying this friday and it never happens. PLEASE do the right thing & ship my package Ash. Thanks
kingdomsklosett said:
Hey! I really really need that strapless bra by the 25, so make sure that you don’t forget to ship to me tomorrow :)
ziola28 said:
Just wondering if you shipped the rest of the stuff yet? Still waiting:)
CareBear said:
I shipped your stuff out today :)
The DC# is 03103490000040829870
CareBear said:
So glad we could work something out! Thank you soooo much :)
Kim said:
Hey. I will most likely be shipping Tuesday since Monday is a holiday. Thanks!
Erin~Mishelle said:
OMG girl! You and these shoes that are just my size!!! ARGH!!! ;)