If you “cancel” it, it will either end up in limbo or you’ll be giving each other phony karma. Just go with it, and repost the item you decided not to trade.

Send me a PM with at least 1 item involved in the trade and I can make the trade cancelable (that’s a real word) - if it isn’t already - for you.

well, we decided that i would just send her the other item and i would take it down and just put back up the original item.

I’d recommend making your first trades with excellent karma users instead. If you’re already stuck in one, use OTHER feedback for reference (ebay, swapstyle, etc.) OR just take the chance. Tell them you’ll spam their address if you don’t get your stuff.

I solve everything in life with paper, rock, scissors.

you should trade with someone who has karma, so that you know for sure your not gonna get screwed out of your things. Once you get karma, then you can make someone with no karma ship first lol :) works great

I never do, (I’m a poor kid) and I haven’t had a problem yet. But if it is something that could break or super expensive and you have the $ I think its a good idea.

I never have, but I’ve gotten DC on some.

With rising postal costs, you should check out FedEX and UPS online. You can print shipping labels from your computer and simply drop off boxes at a location such as Staples or in my case, my company mailroom. Both services include $100 insurance on items at no additional charge.

I always use DC on packages, incase of a problem. I don’t think insurance in neccesary unless an item is really expensive/fragile or if a swapper requests it.